The uncertainty of divorce invokes emotional responses. Denial, anger, fear, insecurity, and numerous other emotions are typical. However, these reactions interfere with making decisions that have far-reaching impact. If you are facing divorce, you may feel like you are venturing blindly into the unknown. However, there are resources to help you chart your course. One such resource is a Certified Divorce Coach. A Certified Divorce Coach is a professional, who has completed an intensive training and mentoring program and achieved certification.
Working with a Certified Divorce Coach helps you tear down the barriers hindering you from thinking clearly and making the best choices. Divorce coaching helps you to be your best 8you will “win” the case. You will, however, be more prepared and empowered. A Divorce Coach is not a substitute for legal counsel, a financial advisor, or a therapist. A Certified Divorce Coach complements the services provided by other important and necessary professionals.
You need to safeguard yourself, your children, your assets, and your future. Empowering yourself, through resources such as divorce coaching enables you to deal with the issues more effectively with the least amount of emotional and economic damages. The Certified Divorce Coach can be an invaluable resource for you, from the earliest stage, when you are just considering divorce, through the divorce process, and adjusting to life after divorce. Your Divorce Coach helps you to make decisions. The coach does not make decisions for you. Divorce is stressful and exhausting. The Certified Divorce Coach helps you tackle the tasks and work through the process.
Working with a Certified Divorce Coach begins with an initial meeting or discovery session. After the initial session, the coach will work with you to establish a coaching plan that best meets your needs. I prefer to develop a personalized plan based on the particular client. Coaching sessions can be in person, by phone, or video-conference. The frequency and the number of sessions vary. Each client is an individual with their own particular needs. Therefore, coaching plans vary.
There are multiple resources available for someone going through a divorce. The information in the resources is not legal advice. The facts and circumstances of each case differ. What you read on the internet, in articles, or in books, may not apply to your case and it is not legal advice. The Divorce Coach cannot give you legal advice. Only a lawyer licensed to practice law in the state where your divorce occurs can give you legal advice. The Certified Divorce Coach can help you make the most out of your relationship with your attorney and other professionals. As a result, you can focus on your efforts to make the best choices and to take action needed to reach your goals.
To schedule a session or to learn more, I can be reached by telephone at 561-713-1197 or by email: clively@livelylaw.com
Cathy L. Purvis Lively, Esq. is an attorney, Florida Supreme Court Certified Mediator, and CDC Certified and CDC Certified Divorce Coach.